Posts in Personal Development
The Case Against "Vacation": Why We Need to Rethink Our Breaks from Work

The word "vacation" conjures images of a single, annual escape from the grind—a week or two when we flee from our daily routines to relax, recharge, and experience something new. However, this concept of vacation is outdated and inadequate for maintaining our well-being in today's relentless work environment. Instead of waiting for just that once-a-year getaway, we should be integrating regular breaks into our schedules throughout the year. Here’s why.

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Unwinding the 4 Ps of Perfectionism

As a recovering perfectionist, this topic is near and dear to my heart. I see many clients, especially high-achieving established men and women struggle with perfectionism. They cling to it with the misunderstanding that it keeps them safe, when actually it keeps them stuck. Perfectionism is a complex and often misunderstood trait that can significantly impact our lives. While striving for excellence is commendable, the relentless pursuit of perfection can lead to a cycle of stress, anxiety, and disappointment.

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Prevention is the Better Option for Burnout

I’ve been in the entrepreneurial space for over a decade now, and I’ve noticed a pattern. But before I begin, I want to note that the information I have gathered here is from newsletters and social media posts publicly available (and I try not to spend too much time on social media!). I do not know these people personally and as always, there is more to the story than what is posted or shared publicly. So with that caveat…

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Feeling anxious? Here's why

Anxiety is a normal human emotion, but excess anxiety can disrupt everyday life.

Not all anxiety is the same both in how it presents (i.e., the symptoms people have) and the factors that contribute to it. When someone comes to a professional with an issue, they are looking for a solution. When it comes to many health issues, there is not one single fix. Saying that you have depression, anxiety, fatigue, or pain really tells us nothing about the solution because the causal and contributing factors are complex and overlapping.

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Three Small Steps to Get Your New Year's Goals on Track

By mid-January, the shiny newness of your New Year’s Resolutions have worn off. You had the best of intentions. You did the goal-setting. You have a vision board. This was YOUR year…until suddenly, you find yourself off or falling off the New Year/New Goals wagon.

  • The workout gear you got for Christmas doesn’t seem as cute.

  • The allure of getting up early to go to the gym to start your new morning routine has been replaced by staying snuggled warm in bed under the covers because you stayed up late last night.

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The Power of Giving Thanks

It seems so simple. Too simple? Give thanks. Okay, now what?

The truth is (and the research shows) that taking a moment to note and to FEEL gratitude can have powerful effects on your health and well-being.

Thanksgiving is a natural time to give thanks. It's also a natural time to be with our family. Let's be real. Sometimes being with family can be challenging. I'm not suggesting that you ignore that fact or that you pretend to enjoy hearing the story of Aunt Edna's hip replacement surgery for the 15th time. What I'm suggesting is that…

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The Fine Line Between Enabling and Supporting

There is a fine line between supporting and enabling.⠀

Most of the time, crossing the fine line is innocent and done from a place of love and caring. But sometimes what we may think is supporting, caring, and loving is actually enabling an unhealthy behavior to continue and potentially causing a negative ripple effect for them and for others later on.⠀

Take a look at your own thoughts and behaviors. An honest look. Are there things you want to change but haven’t been able to shift?

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